Once you’ve both decided to commit to a long distance relationship with your partner, there are many ways to keep the spark between you alive and feel close despite the regional differences.
Social media is your friend: Sending each other snaps of your meals, activities, and adventures in your day can be a fun way of updating and involving your partner in your day. Also, sending each other funny reels and memes on instagram is a fun way to build on your shared sense of humor.
Facetime dates: Set aside time for facetime and give each other undivided attention. Share on each other’s days, play online games together, watch movies, cook and eat together, or even just laying down to relax together is great too! This is a time to have fun and enjoy each other’s (virtual) company.
Gifts in the mail: Flowers in the mail, doordashing snacks, or even hand written letters in the mail can help make it feel like your partner is there with you. These sweet gestures show effort and a high level of care in the relationship and work as a great pick-me-up when your partner is having a hard week, and are great romantic surprises!
Long distance is not easy, but with work (and strong trust!) it does get easier. During your time apart, you are also growing into an independent and problem-solving adult, which is super valuable. Choosing to bring your partner on that journey through a long distance relationship is no small decision and should be honored as a wonderful display of commitment. Best of luck!